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If you haven't done so already, read what I expect in a Master / slave relationship.

Though a slave and a leather boy both choose to submit, to me a slave mindset is different from a boy mindset: A slave only wants to serve through obedience: A slave aligns its will with its Master's so that they are one. This alignment of wills results in the slave deriving its pleasure from pleasing its owner. This requires an innately higher degree of desire for control and obedience. Not everybody has what it takes. In fact, few people have what it takes.

I'll repeat: Few people have what it takes. If you are unclear what I mean, here is a more detailed discussion about the differences in leather boys and leather slaves.

If you think you can honestly offer what I require, read on.

In order for me to consider you for training, there is a lot of information that I must have to help ensure that we would both get our needs and wants met. Answer all of the following questions. Some of them are going to be of a very personal nature, and possibly things you have never shared with anyone else. If I am to take you on as my slave -- as my property -- then I need to know this information. I give you my word that regardless of our agreeing to your servicing my needs or not, none of this information will ever be shared with anyone else.

If you are chosen for training, there will be a suitable trial period to help ensure that we are getting our needs met through this relationship.

Now, on with getting to know each other.



  1. Complete name (first, middle, last)
  2. Complete address
  3. If the above is not a San Diego-area address, can you come to San Diego on a twice-monthly basis? If not, please explain any limitations (financial inability, caretaking commitment, etc.)
  4. Phone number
  5. Date of birth
  6. Place of birth
  7. Driver's license number & state (do not send this unsecure across the Internet)
  8. Social Security number (do not send this unsecure across the Internet)
  9. Highest education completed. If you have a degree(s), what is it in?
  10. Religious upbringing & current spiritual preference



  1. Of the vast population of leather folk, why are you petitioning to be my slave?
  2. What do you seek in a Master/slave relationship?
  3. What is your favorite sexual fantasy?
  4. What is your favorite leather/SM fantasy?
  5. The current sexual interests section will give me tidbits about your sexual background. Give me the broad overall picture.
  6. Describe your family growing up and now. How many siblings are there? What are their names and where do they live? Are your parents still alive? Where do they live and how are they cared for?
  7. Outside of work and sexual interests, what leisure activities do you enjoy (movies, sports, games, etc.)?
  8. If you could change one thing in your life what would it be?
  9. What brings you the most emotional pain? Why? Also write about any emotional "buttons" or hot-spots that you have.
  10. What brings you the most emotional joy?
  11. Tell me about your hopes and dreams.
  12. Do you enjoy any domestic activities in particular (cooking, gardening, laundry, etc.)?
  13. Do you have any particular creative talents?
  14. What do you bring to my family?
  15. Why do you feel like you are slave material? Why not a boy? What's the difference to you?



  1. What are you looking for in a Master/slave relationship?
  2. Describe the Master of your dreams.
  3. Do you have a problem with calling your Master "SIR" at all times?
  4. If so, when would you feel uncomfortable calling Him "SIR"?
  5. When you do something wrong, do you freely admit it?
  6. After a relationship has begun, are you willing to express your situation, distresses, and reservations when asked?



  1. Do you live with someone else? If so, what is the nature of this relationship?
  2. How old were you when you had your first experience with sex? What was it?
  3. If different from above, how old were you when you had your first experience with another man? What was it?
  4. How old were you when you had your first SM, B&D, Daddy/boy or Master/slave experience? What was it?
  5. What types of relationships have you experienced previously (dating, lovers, Daddy/boy, Master/slave, etc.)?
  6. List the serious relationships you have been in and explain why they ended. Include what your part in each breakup was.
  7. Have you ever been unfaithful to a lover or a Master in the past? If so, explain.
  8. Have you ever raised your hand or hit a friend, sex partner, or lover? If so, why?
  9. Is there any reason why you would not be able to commit 100% as a slave (past, present or future reason)?
  10. Have you ever exited a relationship without telling the other person face to face? If so, why?
  11. Have you ever made your sex partner/Master mad intentionally? If so, why?
  12. List references.



  1. Race
  2. Height
  3. Weight
  4. Waist size
  5. Include a photo, and the approximate date it was taken, when you submit this petition.
  6. Clothing sizes
  7. Facial hair (none / moustache / goatee / beard)
  8. Chest hair (none / light / medium / thick)
  9. Back hair (none / light / medium / heavy / gorilla)
  10. Leg hair (none / light / medium / heavy)
  11. Color of hair
  12. Hair length (short / medium / long)
  13. Color of eyes
  14. What do you think is your best physical feature?
  15. Cock length -- soft in inches
  16. Cock length -- erect in inches



  1. Do you smoke? If so, how much?
  2. Do you drink? If so, how much? How often?
  3. Do you use prescription drugs? If so, what?
  4. Do you use illegal drugs? If so, what?
  5. Have you participated in any substance abuse or 12-Step programs? If yes, describe.
  6. HIV status
  1. Do you have any mental problems (including bipolar disorder, manic/depressive)?
  2. Have you been -- or are you being -- treated for depression? If currently, how?
  3. Do you have any disabilities (visible or invisible)?
  4. Do you have any physical limitations which might affect activities? (For example, a bad back might affect work assigned. Sinus problems/nose congestion might impact how one responds to having one's mouth gagged.)
  5. Are you allergic to any medications, foods, animals, plants or anything else? If so, list.
  6. In case of an emergency:
  7. Approximately when was your last dental checkup and what were the results?
  8. Are there any other health concerns that I haven't touched on? If so, what?



  1. What is your housing situation (own home, rent home, rent apartment, rent apartment with roommate, etc.)?
  2. Type of employment (full time, part time, free-lance, independent contractor, on disability, unemployed)?
  3. Where do you work?
  4. What do you do?
  5. Normal work schedule
  6. Approximate annual income
  7. What outstanding debts do you have?
  8. Do you own a car?



  1. Fill out a BDSM checklist and submit it along with this petition.

Note: I am seeking a service-oriented slave, someone who enjoys providing service through surrendering to obedience. I may or may not choose to utilize this person as a sexual outlet. Related, my preference would be to have a service slave who is high on the submission-craving scale (Domination/submission), high on the slavery-craving scale (Mastery/slavery) and low on the masochistic-craving scale. I don't want to need to take my service slave to the dungeon in order for my service slave to feel fulfilled.

  1. Rate yourself on the nine degrees of submission and submit it along with this petition. Explain your rating.



  1. Have you violated any law in the last two years? If so, describe.
  2. Have you ever been arrested? If so, nature of arrest.
  3. When would you be available to visit with your prospective Master?
  4. List any other subjects or topics you feel are relevant to this petition.


Let me reiterate to you that all the questions MUST be answered HONESTLY. I will keep ALL this information confidential. Not all items in the play partner checklist are necessarily things that I get into, or would be a requirement on your part. I realize that the information required may seem excessive, and possibly scary, but it is necessary in order for me to determine if we would suit one another's needs.

In uniform,
Officer Wes

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