OFFICER WES'
BDSM CHECKLIST

 

The checklist below is a way for me to get to know you better. Not all items below are necessarily things that I get into, or would be a requirement on your part.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:

  1. For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
  2. For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for me to know in the margin to the right. For example, under "uniforms" you might have a different fetish for military versus police.

 

Activity

Experience
(yes/no)

Willingness
(NO or 0-5)

Notes

Abrasion

Anal sex (see "fucking butt")

Animal roles (puppy, pony, etc.)

Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)

Auctioned for charity

Ball stretchers /ball stretching

Ball torture

Bathroom use control

Beating (soft)

Beating (hard)

Being bitten

Bestiality

Blindfolds

Blowjobs (see "Sucking dick")

Body worship

Bondage (light)

Bondage (heavy)

Bondage (while sleeping)

Bondage (multi-day)

Bondage (public, under clothing)

Boot worship

Branding
If there is a required branding, describe any objection to this procedure. Also, describe any current brandings.

Breath control

Buttplugs (small)

Buttplugs (large)

Buttplug (public, clothed)

Cages (locked inside of)

Caning

Castration fantasy

Catheterization

Cattle prod

Cells (locked inside of)

Chains

Chastity

Chastity belts

Chauffeuring

Choking

Chores (domestic service)

Clothespins

Clothing restrictions (having clothes chosen for you)

Cock rings/straps

Cock torture

Cock worship

Collars (worn in private)

Collars (worn in public)

Cowboys

Cuttings

Dildos

Domestic service

Electricity (TENS-based)

Electricity (violet wand)

Enemas (for cleansing)

Enemas (retention/punishment)

Examinations (physical)

Exercise (forced/required)

Exhibitionism (friends)

Exhibitionism (strangers)

Eye contact restrictions

Fire play

Fisting

Flat-top or other haircuts (specify)

Flogging

Following orders

Food (having it chosen for you)

Foot worship

Forced masturbation

Forced nudity (private)

Forced nudity (around others)

Forced servitude

Fucking butt (fucking)

Fucking butt (getting fucked)

Gags (cloth)

Gags (horse-style mouth bit)

Gags (inflatable)

Gags (phallic)

Gags (rubber)

Gags (tape)

Gas masks

Gates of Hell

Given away to another Top (temporarily)

Given away to another Top (permanently)

Glove play (crotch)

Glove play (mouth)

Golden showers (see water sports)

Group scenes (play parties)

Hand jobs (giving)

Hand jobs (receiving)

Handcuffs (leather)

Handcuffs (metal)

Harnesses (leather)

Harnesses (rope)

Hoods

Housework (doing)

Humiliation (private)

Humiliation (public)

Ice cubes

Immobilization

Initiation rites

Interrogations

Kidnapping

Kneeling

Knife play

Latex clothing

Leather clothing

Leather restraints

Manacles & irons

Marks / bruises (temporary / just for a few hours)

Marks / bruises (that might last more than a few hours)

Massage (giving)

Massage (receiving)

Medical scenes

Military scenes (Army, Air Force, Navy, Marines) (specify)

Modeling for erotic photos

Motorcycles

Mummification

Nipple clamps

Nipple rings (piercings)

Nipple play/"torture"

Nipple weights

Outdoor scenes

Outdoor sex

Pain (mild)

Pain (severe)

Phone sex

Piercing (temporary)

Piercing (permanent)
If there is a required piercing, describe any objections to this procedure. Also, describe any current piercings.

Prison scenes

Punishment scene

Rape fantasy

Rape (gang-style) fantasy

Religious scenes

Restrictive rules on behavior

Riding crops

Rimming (oral/anal contact)

Rituals

Rubber (neoprene) clothing -- see also latex

Saline injections in balls

Scarification

Scat (brown showers)

Scent worship (man musk & man smell in armpits for example)

Scratching - getting

Sensory deprivation

Service / serving

Serving as art

Serving as a housekeeper

Serving as a waiter

Serving other Tops (supervised)

Serving other Tops (unsupervised)

Sex

Sexual deprivation / chastity (short term)

Sexual deprivation / chastity (long term)

Shaving (body hair)

Shaving (head hair)

Skinny-dipping

Sleep deprivation

Sleepsacks

Sounds (metal urethral rods)

Spandex clothing

Spanking

Spanking (over-the-knee)

Speech restrictions (when, what)

Speculums (anal)

Spitting

Spreader bars

Standing in corner

Stocks

Straight jackets

Strapping (full body beating)

Sucking dick (blowing)

Sucking dick (getting blown)

Suspension (upright)

Suspension (horizontal)

Suspension (inverted)

Swallowing cum
If yes, describe circumstance, frequency, and current preference.

Swallowing urine (see "water sports")

Tattooing

Teasing

Thumbcuffs (metal)

Tickling

Tit clamps (see nipples)

Tongue bath / tongue worship

Trucks / sleeper cabs

Uniforms (specify)

Verbal humiliation

Violet wand (electrical device)

Voyeurism (watching others)

Video (watching others)

Video (recordings of you)

Water sports (external)

Water sports (internal / swallowing piss)

Wax (hot, dripping)

Wearing symbolic jewelry

Whipping

Wooden paddles

Wrestling

 


 

My thanks to the late Tammad Rimilia, creator of his Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List. It was the source document for this version, which I modified for my interests. I found Tammad's version in the Links section of the defunct Cuffs.com under "Forms, Checklists and Contracts."

 


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