Officer Wes describes the Master/slave relationship he wants

OFFICER WES DESCRIBES
THE
MASTER/slave RELATIONSHIP HE WANTS

Table of contents:

· Officer Wes' ad for a slave

· Definitions

· What it takes for the two of us to be compatible

· What Officer Wes is like

· Attributes my slave should have

o Obedience

§ Reliability

§ Honesty

§ Punctuality

§ Dedication

§ Trustworthiness

o Respect

o Communicative

§ Enthusiastic

§ Passionate

o Disciplined

§ Substance free

§ Self-supporting

§ Clean

§ Monogamous

· What I expect: Officer Wes' protocol for his slave (and for those who desire to be his slave)

Officer Wes' ad for a slave:

Handsome man in uniform; intelligent, confident, experienced, with good reputation and verifiable references, bright smile and sense of humor, seeks slave as valued addition to my family

I am extroverted, self-centered, exhibitionistic, demanding, trustworthy, honest, communicative, enthusiastic, loving, supportive, nurturing, aggressive, fun, 49 and hot.

I am quietly dominant, looking for full ownership of an obedient, erotically masochistic, service-oriented property devoted to my pleasure -- a slave who understands the intrinsic value of service and surrender in and of itself; of Mastery/slavery, Dominance/submission, obedience.

I enjoy a quiet domestic life, chat, friends over for dinner, TV/Netflix, the performing arts (sometimes), walks, hikes, ocean swimming, workouts, yoga, volunteer work, the leather community, friends, good food, and regular erotic use of my slave.

It will take some time to get to know each other. Having slave visit every other weekend to serve is one progressive learning/bonding format that has worked well previously. If a live-in situation is your desire immediately, then I am not the Master for you. slave must live in the Southern California area or be able to travel at own expense.

At 49 years old, erotic play is a central part of my life and what I look for in a relationship. A good Master/slave relationship is erotic in all its details. This is different from being sex-driven.

Giving real, intense pain gets me off. I enjoy giving pain of many types, including CBT, TT, floggers, paddles, straps, piercings, bondage, punching, slapping, pinching things... I also enjoy sensual contact, massage, raunch, regular urinal service, tickling, K-9, objectification, and whatever trip crosses my mind.

I enjoy expanding a slave's limits and training it, but the slave must come equipped with the basic desire for the endorphin high of pain. It only gets me off if the bottom craves pain for its own pleasure - not just to please me. Erotic sadism meeting erotic masochism creates amazing spiritual energy.

My slave's pleasure in pain is my pleasure anytime, anywhere.

Having my slave kneel in gratitude and wank on my boots turns me on. I love to take a slave throat frequently, and have my ass eaten. I rarely fuck ass.

I like my slave lying on the slavepad beside my chair so I can stroke its head while I watch TV. A great pain-pig slave is a rare commodity - worth protecting and cherishing.

I have been in service to a Leather Daddy named Daddy Barry since 2005, and have a leatherpup nicknamed “pup”, so slave would be entering a loving family dynamic.

Interested slaves can save us both time and tribulation by reviewing my criteria. I don't expect to find a slave that meets ALL my criteria, but I do expect to find a slave that meets most of them.

More information throughout this Web site.

ESSENTIAL SLAVE CRITERIA:
honest, communicative, intelligent, discrete, substance-free, self-supporting, clean.

is clear about being a slave
finds pride in being (becoming) a good slave
service oriented in non-sexual ways
can enjoy conversation
companionable as needed
likes pain much more than getting fucked
wants limits pushed in the dungeon

IMPORTANT SLAVE CRITERIA:
intelligent – not necessarily schooled
muscled, athletic or lean
clear-headed even-keeled
knows what it wants/thinks AND defers to Master
a working familiarity with the spiritual concepts of introspection and personal accountability

already Southern-California based

well-spoken
enjoys the company of kinky men
loyal, thoughtful
low-maintenance
30s to early 60s

And of course a sense of humor is always a plus!

LESS IMPORTANT:

homebody/ nester

is proficient or trainable at massage & cooking

I invite candidates to write me in detail about yourself at “sir” [at] “officerwes.com”

Some brief definitions:

· Leather Daddy -- a dominant man into what's generally considered "kinky." Likes being a father figure for his leather play buddy(ies).

· leather boy -- a submissive man wanting a Leather Daddy father figure. The word "boy" in this sense has nothing to do with biological age. It is a mindset.

vs. the next level of Dominance and submission:

· MASTER -- a dominant man who desires another's absolute submission.

· slave -- a man who feels the need for such a degree of submission that he feels more complete when giving up all control.

The above definitions work as a general model. In June 1999 I added a more detailed discussion about the differences in leather boys and leather slaves.

What it takes for the two of us to be compatible:
A good working knowledge of what I'm like, what the other person should be like, and what is expected.

What Officer Wes is like:

I am extroverted, self-centered, exhibitionistic, demanding, trustworthy, honest, communicative, enthusiastic, loving, supportive, nurturing, aggressive, fun.

Attributes my slave (and those who desire to be my slave) should have:

1. Obedience

o Reliability

o Honesty

o Punctuality

o Dedication

o Trustworthiness

2. Respect

3. Communicative

o Enthusiastic

o Passionate

4. Disciplined

o Substance-free

o Self-supporting

o Clean

o Monogamous

What I expect: Officer Wes' protocol for his slave (and for those who desire to be his slave)